How can I make him want to go out with me again?

Dear Confused

If it has a trunk, big ears, a massive grey backside, and generally looks like an elephant, then it's a bloody elephant.
If your ex is calling you sexy, he thinks you're sexy, and is keen. However, just because he wants to hook up with you, doesn't mean he still wants to date you.

Boys have no qualms with hooking up with their ex's. They know what we like and we know what they like. So any opportunity post break-up is usually jumped on like a fat kid on a cup cake.

However, if there are any expressions of love or suggestions of dating again, you are risking the possibility that he'll make like a fat man's pants and split. (Sorry about the fat jokes.)

So if you are going to make a move, be wary. Don't be too obvious that you want to get back together. Drop some subtle hints, and if he catches on, you'll be a regular Ross and Rachel.

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