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Help a fellow TG!

Apr 15 12:21pm

Dear Total Girl,
There's this girl at school who is the meanest. She's best friends with my bestie but she is my total enemy! She has even told me she hates me in front of me and my BFFs. I can't stand her playing with us, but it's as if I'm the only one who has a problem with her. What should I do?!
Julia, 11

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1. win_melissa_win - Apr 15 09:37pm

Hmmm..1.Have a talk with her. Find out why she really hate you. If its your mistake you should fix it 2. Try to get along with her like, share her some food or give friendship stuff 3. Ignore her. Don't listen anything she says about you!
Good Luck!
Vanessa 12

2. lcdoggy321 - Apr 15 10:29pm

i've been in a fight b4 with like 5 of them yea five chelsea kazz and tammie from grade five and erin and alane from yr 6 and i was in year six we evan had to see a cuncerler to help us out actully 2 cuncerlers then we talked abou with te cunciler then it all worked out...just try talk about it :)

3. lcdoggy321 - Apr 15 10:34pm

ask your self why you dont like this bullie
ask her why is she playing and i you are to sceard then tell your bestie/best friend about this isue and tell her what she said to you then work it out if it dosnt go to well sorry mate
lucy 11 p.s try to ignor her wut vanessa says

4. lcdoggy321 - Apr 15 10:35pm

bye the way im not a guy i cant change it lol

5. fancypants_96 - Apr 16 11:31am

this happened to me as well don't worry i became friends with my enemy but if she is really the meanest person you have ever met tell your friends because they might not know and sit down and ask the mean girl why she is mean to you she could be jealous

paige

6. mlashami - Apr 16 01:31pm

you knoe the best thing is 2 tell yo best friend then she can sort things out or have a say. and if she says no 2 u then u might as well js get a new bffl

7. anewfatejugarap - Apr 16 02:13pm

i will talk to her (front-2-front) and ask what's wrong. And I will also say the truth t her!hhmp!

8. sam_is_music_crazy - Apr 16 02:47pm

I think that you should ask her why she's being so mean to you and then maybe you two could sort out what the problem is and fix it. If she refuses to do so, then you should just say hello or say something nice to her when you see her. Then she'll start to wonder why you're being so nice to her and-

9. sam_is_music_crazy - Apr 16 02:48pm

eventually she'll start being nice back to you. Before you know it you'll be good friends.

Hop this helps,

Sam

10. shannyta96 - Apr 16 05:47pm

just tell her that you can't stand that she's hanging out with your bestie or you can get close to her and try to talk to her nicely.....
make her understands your feeling....
if it doesn't work,then stay out of her and ignore her everytime she talk to you (when she talk to you,just walk away )

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